i have a fact,or errr . i dunno what it is ~ but it's good though , see what i found !!
Typically, for a daughter who's an adult, who was working out of the town, who joined her husband wander outside the city or abroad, who are in school or college away from her parents ... .. will often feel missed her mother. And what about Daddy? Maybe because mom is more often called to ask how are you every day, but you know, if it turns out Papa was reminded mama to call you?
Maybe once when you're little, Mama was the one who more often take you to tell a story before sleeping. But you know that after Papa worked and with tired faces ,papa ask mama about how are you today and what did you do all day?
By the time you are still a little girl ... ... Papa is usually taught her little daughter to ride a bike. And after Daddy thinks that you can, Papa will take the help-wheel off of your bike ... Then Mama said: "Not yet Dad, don't take the help-wheel off yet", mama's afraid of her daughter will falling and injured .. But did you realize? Papa with confidence will let you, look at you, and take care of you pedaled carefully because he knows his little girl SURE CAN.
By the time you were crying whining ask for new dolls or toys, mama looks at you sadly.but Papa would say emphatically: "No, we buy later, but not now" did you know, Papa did it because he does not want you to become a spoiled child with all claims that can always be fulfilled?
When you are a cold sore, Papa is sometimes a little too afraid and he saying: "i Already told you!do not drink cold water! ". Unlike Mama who pay attention to and advise you gently. Know it, that Papa really worried about your condition.
When you've got teenagers .... You start demanding on Papa to be able to license out the night, but he said: "Not allowed!". Know it that Daddy does it to take care of you? Because for Papa, you are something very - very unusual precious .. After that you're angry at Dad, and went into the room, slamming the door ... And that comes knocking doors and persuade you to not upset is Mama .... Know it that, that time Papa closed his eyes and holding within his inner turmoil, that Papa really want to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you?
when a guy started to call, or even come to the house to see you, Daddy will be presenting the world's coolest face ... .. : ') Papa eavesdropping or peeping occasionally when you're chatting together in the living room .. Do you realize, that Papa felt jealous?
When you begin to be more credible, and Papa slightly loosened the rules to leave the house for you, you will be forced to violate the evening hours. So did Papa was sitting in the living room, and waiting you to go home with a heart who is very worried ... And after feeling worried that a protracted ... When he saw his little daughter came home late at night he will harden the hearts and Daddy yell at you .. . Do you realize, that something daddy afraid of will come? "That his little girl will soon leave Papa"
After graduating from high school, Dad will be a little force you to become a doctor or engineer. Know it that papa does it because he worried about your future ... But anyway he keep smiling and support you when your choice is not in accordance with the papa's wishes
When you become an adult girl .... And you have to go to college in another town ... he have to let you at the airport. Did you know that Papa's body was stiff to give you a hug? Papa just smiled as he gave this and that advices, and tells you to be careful ... But Papa wanted to cry like Mama which hugs you tightly.all that he do is remove a little tear in the corner of his eyes, and patted you shoulder and said: "Take care of yourself -well dear ". Papa did it all for you to be STRONGER ... strong to go out and become adults.
While you need money to pay college and life, the first person which frowned is Papa. Papa must have tried hard to find a way so that you can feel the same with other friends.
When your request is no longer was just asked for a new doll, and he know he can not give what you want ... The words that came out of Papa's mouth were: "No .... You can not! "Whereas in the inner Papa, he desperately wanted to say" Yes dear, papa will buy for you later. " Did you know that at that time papa failed to make his daughter smile?
Time for you to graduate as an undergraduate. Papa was the first to stand up and give applause for you. Papa will smile with proud and satisfaction of seeing "my little girl already graduate ,she's not a spoiled child again, and has become someone"
and Until , your boyfriend come to the house and asked permission to take you from him. Papa would be very careful about giving permission .. Because Daddy knows ... .. That man will take his place later ...
And finally .... When Papa saw you sitting in the aisle with someone that papa thinks he deserves his place, Papa smiled happily .... Do you know, in that happy days Papa went round the stage briefly, and cry? Papa cry because papa is very Happy!
Then Papa pray .... In a quiet prayer to God, Papa said: "O God, my job has been completed with good .... My little girl that is cute and I loved has become a beautiful woman .... please make her happy with her husband ...."
After that Papa can only await for his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit ...
With her hair had turned white, and more ....
And trunk, and arms that were no longer strong enough to take care of you from danger ....
Papa had finish his job ....
our Daddy, Papa, Dad, or Abah ... It is a figure that always looks strong ...
Even when he was not strong to not cry ...
And he was the first person who always believes that "YOU CAN" in all cases whatsoever. : ')
Smile and be thankful when you can feel the love of a father till his job done .... If you have that experience, you are one lucky person ...
sorry for my bad english ~ i hope you could understand :') papa is so kind ^^
i crying when i found this article ~